Girl – not an ordinary human


A girl’s life is different. You may think, Why and How ?

Positive woman who seeks inspiration

Positive woman who seeks inspiration

Whether she is a student, a doctor or a professor, perspectives of her life are varied. As being a girl, I can so relate. I know men and boys also experience a challenging life. Let’s talk about girls this time.

When a toddler(baby girl) is born, history and diversified cultures tell us that people see through broad eyes the hurdles, she would be bringing in the future. Though, a born baby doesn’t ask much! People are more concerned about the future; however, I agree they keep everything planned. This is not the way to burden yourself with irrelevant circumstances. But, thankful to the modern era, where girl is treated almost equal as boys and those societies where women are greatly motivated. The great religion,Islam also considers birth of girl as a blissful blessing.

As she strenuously jumps in the process of learning and seeking education, I highly encourage the endeavoring efforts of parents and society who put stress on the importance of girl’s education. But, we also find narrow-minds and intolerant existence in our society. She have to strive and struggle till she successfully completes her academics. She also have to manage with home chores, if the family is not too modern. Here, modern is viewpoint of liberal minds.

After facing great challenges in the schools, neighborhoods and institutes, she enters in the professional fields, basically to earn. I hereby agree, females are preferably hired in certain organizations. Many researches have concluded where the ratio of educated women surpassed ratio of men in getting good jobs. But, Have you ever think of the tortures and woes a women suffers when she unfortunately handed over to a barbaric male dominating organization. Looking at a girl as she is a cheese cake and desperate desires to have it, reflects to such inhuman behaviors. Well, these are all boorish acts of people, prevailing in our society.

I eagerly wanted to drive attention toward so-called easy life of a girl. Though, it is not!

Coming to the happy word, MARRIAGE. It brings moments of joys and happiness to the entire family. Woman(who was once a girl) has to undergo with torment as looks of anguish crossed her face several times and it get noticed by all of us. She strongly faces the fading parts of her shimmery wedding and combat to remain reticent and muted. Lucky are those who have nice partners. Here, nice describes a perfect man. Contrary to the fact that no one is perfect!

With the practical teachings of life, She becomes a mentor who can instill knowledge on the subjects of compromise, sacrifice and steps to endure tolerance. Is she still an ordinary human ? Definitely, No from my side!

This post is just an introduction summary, omitting atrocious melancholy.

I would be profoundly appreciated to have your viewpoint on this post. I really mean it.

Technology hits social gatherings


Let this blog post highlights on technolgocial scenario.

You feel hungry, your stomach desires for a continental or Italian cuisine and there you stop by at the best restaurant of the town. The engaging and fascinating environment totally captures your attention and this is quite decent to one’s eyes. But there is something having one’s attention drawn away from this pleasing atmosphere of a restaurant. Wanna make guess ?

Google Image

Google Image

Technology! This is the blissful interference in today’s social gatherings. I know, it is hard to accuse wonderful innovations, responsible for superfluous interruptions, but enormous uses of devices create diverse distractions. When we go through such situations, level of tolerance is highly tested!

Whether you consider a meeting, a fine dinner, lunch, conferences or a family time, technology is leading everywhere. I also name it as “disturbing technology”. The integration of disturbance technological devices has badly affected our social communications. A teenager is more attracted toward a handy and interesting gadget than a friend or a member of his family. You can simply relate with the excessive use of smartphones, laptops, Ipad, notebooks or kindle. We have successfully entered in a fast-paced lifestyle where individuals should keep a distance with technology, at least on gatherings. I deeply think that technology ruins the pleasing environment of people interactions, which is quite disturbing.  The way we communicate or interact is also greatly changed with the introduction of technological improvements. It can be a good advantage but there is always a darker side to everything. We must not forget that!

Though technology is monitoring our lives and it is almost impossible to maintain a distance with it. Staying positive is never a crime, so I believe one should stick with it till the best happens. How can I blame it further as it is the only way through I am communicating with you guys also 😛

Chai Hotel


Cup of tea, I grabbed during traveling

Cup of tea

Title may sound little weird but relax, I tell you. Chai(Tea) is the most consumed drink in Pakistan, which is liked by people, belonging to all the provinces. You will be astounded to notice countless number of CHAI hotels in Pakistan. In every other nook or corner, or at every distance of few kilometers, or at half hour distance on the highways, or at the commercial areas or seaside; you cannot take your sight away from Pathan Chai wala. The taste of Chai is so delicious that working labors, teenagers, office employees gather at chai wala to sip a cup or may be two in mornings, evening and late nights. Though it is a service that runs 24/7.

Either you roam around in winters late nights or summers early mornings, Chai Wala(Tea maker) is always there to delight you with strong milk tea or even kehwa(Black tea). If you are a Pakistani, you are familiar with the pleasant environment at Chai hotel But if you are not a Pakistani, I suggest you must have a Chai in Pakistan, whenever you come here.

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Posted above is the picture, I took on an open Pakistani Chai hotel. The taste was too strong and rich with flavor. Enjoy the post, till then I sip a cup of hot tea, served next to me.

Good Day Friends!

A piece of paper said it all.


Cute Proposal!

Due to hustle and bustle of daily routine lifestyle, Sara planned to join at lunch with Ali, her colleague at office. Both, the individuals were craving for a delicious taste of Chinese food and rest their feet at the newly opened restaurant. The smoke, from the platter, was filled with savory aroma and glasses of juice were placed on each corner of the exquisite table. The environment was pleasant and charming.

Sara’s phone started ringing, She picked up a call and excused Ali for a minute. In the meantime, Ali took out a paper and a Parker pen. With his untidy writing, he managed to write something in hurry, folded the paper like a napkin and place it under Sara’s mats.

Sara, with overjoyed expression, came back and informed Ali, She has a surprise to tell him. Ali was in state of confusion thinking, What does Sara has to say and a surprise!

In the meantime, Sara took that paper(folded as a napkin) and with a surprising look, started reading it politely, which actually brings a ecstatic smile on her face. The letter said, “I have no understanding, What I have to say But I need to confess, when you say Yes to any statement, I just assume it to be the answer of my question!”

Sara, with mixed emotions, asked Ali, “And what is your question?”

Ali replied with a hand written note, which said, “Do you want me to be with you every time, every day and every morning?”. The boy again mumbled a statement saying, “I always assumed a YES from her”.

Sara did not want to drop this cute moment, forgetting about the surprise of her admission in Fashion designing University, She took a paper and wrote the word, YES, which triggers a delightful beginning of a new story.

3 Days, 3 Quotes – Day 3


Here it is another bright morning and I welcome my readers with the third quote.
This quote is about the deeds that You and I perform in this life and how you will be judged in the life hereafter.
One of the inspiring quote for every person out there.

Link - islmaic-quotes.com

               Link – Islamic-quotes.com

Time is crossing by, We kept it unnoticed and overlooked. Focus on making the good deeds heavier in the life hereafter to seek heaven. Inshallah 🙂

Stay motivated and focused!

May 22 – Dodge to Jealous monster


STORY A DAY (Writing prompts, May 22- Time For Something Different)

Saira whispered something fishy to Lilly. The packed mathematics class did not notice the wicked plan, the girls discussed. Students were paying full concentration to Professor’s detailed lecture on Algebra. The girls, Saira and lilly, on the other side, were pretending to be physically present with absent minds. Algebra seemed to be a threatening monster that eats up intelligent minds avariciously. Girls assume that their tranquil minds, filled with extremely unique ideas,get swallowed then digested by that mosquito faced monster and how come they imagine a life, gets sucked with algebra, attacking monster. Lilly roared with a screeching voice, No! I can’t let my beautiful mind be trapped and hijacked by unidentified warriors of mathematics. As the time of execution strikes clock, Saira, with the help of chair, quickly lied on the floor without hurting herself and Lilly yelled shockingly(over reacted), “Saira is fainted! she needs to take medicines”. Before the Algebra Professor exchanges a reply, Lilly interrupted, “I will take her home to get rest”.

Girls with impish talents,heroically escaped from jealous creepy monster.

Thanking note


thank-you-note

Have you ever think for a silenced minute and observe,how blessed you are?

Just take out little time, deeply pay attention to multiple things around you and imagine about their absence in your life. Terrific! It might be. If I see myself without my wardrobe, dressing, notebook and my laptop, I would be in state of shock for quite a few days. Though the things I just mentioned are artificial and can be taken away anytime. That’s so natural.

As I dig into deep thoughts of my mind, I figured that we, all human beings, are ultimately the most blessed creature of ALMIGHTY on earth. The countless blessings, we share each day, are gifted by ALLAH, the super merciful and beneficent.

If we start saying thanks(SHUKAR ALLHAMDOLILLAH) for little tiny things to big honoring achievements in our lives, we may get drained but the list stretches to be long and longer enough.

Just think for a minute and secretly say a thanking note to ALMIGHTY.
At times, little prayers makes you feel hopeful, determined and blessed.

In the end, YOU ARE THE ONE WHO GETS REWARDED with million other blessings again.

May 20 – Fatima meets Mr.Rahim


STORY A DAY – STORY IN THE PRESENT TENSE

Fatima always dreams of spending a day alone outside her home. Her dream comes true on a bright,shiny day of summers, she left her house carrying her favorite brown leather handbag on the shoulders. Handbag has a chilled water bottle, a fresh lemon juice and some eatables. Riding on the bicycle, fatima notices that Mr Rahim is carrying a heavy sack of loaded vegetables toward the market for selling and earning his livelihood. She immediately parked the bicycle and asked Mr.rahim to take her bicycle and return when he is done with his work. The old man has refused earlier but on insisting by soft heartened fatima, he agrees and takes bicycle. She also gave him a lemon juice and eatables.

The girl started walking toward market, without any purpose, just to experience about the nature of people. She observes new people and deeply think how is everyone so different with each other. Some man give an annoying stare while few women comments on her as she is walking all alone. She keeps on asking abrupt questions to herself, “Why people are always in hurry”? Why they put efforts to judge others? Does no one care for a stranger?

Roaming for about two hours, she returns home with confused emotions about the depressing attitudes of the people, whom she met outside. She realizes that she has not seen a kind and humble person in the whole day and concludes with an idea that it’s far better to sit inside and do not dream about the imaginary loved world outside.

On her way to sleep, Fatima suspiciously notices that a man is trying to push the main entrance door of the house. She feels little worried but hopeful that she has seen this man today and he has a generous heart. As she opens the door, she is over-whelmed to see that a family of 8 people have come to thank her for letting helping hand to their father today when he was going toward market to sell vegetables.

“Why you let your old-aged father to work such hard”, asked fatima from the elder son of Mr.rahim. He replies that our father had a discussion with us last week that I want to see if there is still any kind and humble human being in this world who would help a strange old-aged man and give everything she/he has and if I find such person in two weeks, I will not suffer hard and relax.

Today You have made me wrong Fatima, said Mr. Rahim happily. Fatima smiles and replied back the same to Mr. Rahim, “You have made me wrong too”.

Real Friends Who Departed


We haven’t met for almost ONE YEAR!

Around 7 years back, I saw her first sitting next to my chair in chemistry class at coaching centre. She was amazingly attractive and polite but little reserve, not liking to talk unimportant. I was also being quieter and disciplined girl, she had ever seen. Being sophisticated for more than a month, we took out faked masks and became REAL FRIENDS.

Birthday card

Birthday card

From all of sudden hourly calls to minute text, we were bound in the countless attachment. I adore her and she adores me. We have been always like those good friends who no matter what happen shares the daily talks, every hour. On the exciting birthdays, we always come up with some mind boggling ideas for the party celebration. Those cute handmade cards, pictures and customized things are always so dear to me. She is a friend, with whom i can cry and laugh simultaneously. No No, don’t think I am mad LOL. This is another phase of a strong relation, where you feel comfortable with a friend, family or companion. Lucky are those who are blessed with generous relations.

Number of Misunderstandings tried to infiltrate gap between our friendship but with the inner love for each other, it always failed. I understand her and she understands me. Like all best friends, we enjoyed our life hilariously. I still remember the abrupt calls, she did in the sleeping hours to just let me know how she felt about her boyfriend, later become husband. Gorgeous! What a splendidly beautiful love story they shared. Listening to her funny stories became my favorite time through out the day.The unforgettable memories we cherish today is priceless and valued. With time, she got a job in airlines and now she lives in the clouds. I mean, she is an airhostess 🙂 For the busy schedules and her married life commitments, she is no more the same time giving girl, I celebrated my life with. I understand her commitments and I trust her for being with me always and forever. I am so confident that she keeps the same thoughts. With my passion of traveling all over the world, I keep my vision with my bestie and explore the world with her eyes and camera 😉

my words

my words

I do complain her and she complains me. But the care and share emotions we maintained in our friendship is way above than complaining. Now, we don’t talk hourly nor weekly but we still share the thoughts and listen to each other. She is still the one, whom I can message and disturb. She is still the one whom I can show my shopping. She is the still that girl whom I can tell those unspoken words. She is still that KINZA whom I saw her back 7 years ago.

I miss her every day and She misses me too.

May 13 – 100 words


Ella with her love
Ella woke up from a terrible dream, she was still in shock and despair. Grabbing a glass of chilled water from her side table, she quickly looked outside the square window and kept an instant sight on Jupiter, a dog with a cute smile. Ella found Jupiter with some strange awkward behaviors directing towards the horny bushes. As already being awfully concerned for her love of life, Jupiter, she ran downstairs speedily with bare-foots and hugged the dog warmly. As she deeply detected the area around bushes, She cracked creepy laugh to accuse a red-eyed black kitten rather a thief or mugger.