Technology hits social gatherings


Let this blog post highlights on technolgocial scenario.

You feel hungry, your stomach desires for a continental or Italian cuisine and there you stop by at the best restaurant of the town. The engaging and fascinating environment totally captures your attention and this is quite decent to one’s eyes. But there is something having one’s attention drawn away from this pleasing atmosphere of a restaurant. Wanna make guess ?

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Technology! This is the blissful interference in today’s social gatherings. I know, it is hard to accuse wonderful innovations, responsible for superfluous interruptions, but enormous uses of devices create diverse distractions. When we go through such situations, level of tolerance is highly tested!

Whether you consider a meeting, a fine dinner, lunch, conferences or a family time, technology is leading everywhere. I also name it as “disturbing technology”. The integration of disturbance technological devices has badly affected our social communications. A teenager is more attracted toward a handy and interesting gadget than a friend or a member of his family. You can simply relate with the excessive use of smartphones, laptops, Ipad, notebooks or kindle. We have successfully entered in a fast-paced lifestyle where individuals should keep a distance with technology, at least on gatherings. I deeply think that technology ruins the pleasing environment of people interactions, which is quite disturbing.  The way we communicate or interact is also greatly changed with the introduction of technological improvements. It can be a good advantage but there is always a darker side to everything. We must not forget that!

Though technology is monitoring our lives and it is almost impossible to maintain a distance with it. Staying positive is never a crime, so I believe one should stick with it till the best happens. How can I blame it further as it is the only way through I am communicating with you guys also 😛

Words Of Appreciation


Have you ever think about words of appreciation ?
I always feel so overwhelmed by the special words, yes i name them “magical words” as they do magic. It actually lifts up the conversation and expands our talking behaviors with each other. Every word that helps in encouraging the efforts are always special and they blow their magic to the other person. Here i write some of them and just imagine how it brings a confident smile on your face when someone says it to you on your performance or attitude.

Well done you did it.
Keep doing.
You are awesome.
I admire your skills.
Looking forward to your performances.

These magical words does not only lift your mood but gives enough courage to step up in the struggling and challenging life. Saying a word does not make much difference to one’s attitude, in fact it brightens up one’s soul with gratitude.

Keep motivating others with these magical words, it does magic to one’s life !
Appreciate others to get appreciated.

Twelve Ways Of Winning People To Your Way Of Thinking


While I was thinking what topic I should chose for writing on my blog, a book placed at my book shelf gets attraction. The name of the book is “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by DALE CARNEGIE.
The title of the book is as appealing to my nature as I love making friends and I would love to go in deep readings just to find out the ways to inspire and influence people. Yeah I believe, I have some hidden leadership qualities in me (oh yes, leadership qualities) and the best thing about being a leader is to get plenty of love and loads of affection from followers. With that devotion from followers, leader is always challenging and a man of good sense of responsibility. It always excites me to read stuff that is challenging to one’s soul, to win people interest and to understand other point of views. Although, I know there are some of so annoying human existence with us but we all have some sort of qualities which are not in favor. In short, we are all not so perfect.

Anyways, coming back to the small book by the great writer, I would like here to highlight Twelve Ways of Winning People to Your Way of Thinking. This is interesting!
Rule 1: The only way to get the best of an argument t is to avoid it.

Rule 2: Show respect for the other man’s opinions. Never tell a man he I wrong.

Rule 3: If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.

Rule 4: Begin in a friendly way.

Rule 5: Get the other person saying “yes, yes” immediately.

Rule 6: Let the other man do a great deal of talking.

Rule7: Let the other man feel that the idea is his.

Rule 8: Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.

Rule 9: Be sympathetic to the other person’s ideas and desires.

Rule 10: Appeal to the nobler motives.

Rule 11: Dramatize your ideas.

Rule 12: Throw down a challenge.

I hope the above few pointers will benefit your efforts in winning people to your way of thinking. I will keep sharing valuable words with my readers in future too.

Happy Conversations


I always think how different any conversation would be ?
Every talk got to have some reasoning like to inform and get informed, to order and to be ordered, to listen and to be listened, to teach and to be taught. Reasons are too many. I always try to make conversations with random people to perceive their thoughts, attitudes, perspectives and nature of living. It makes me happy from inside. It will make you happy too.

Let me tell you how can you make an interesting and happy conversation. First of all, you don’t need to have any particular typical topic to get started. One should have it in mind that YOU WANT TO HAVE A HAPPY CONVERSATION and that’s it ! when we talk about happy conversation, it explains you will talk in interest of other person, you will make him/her comfortable with you. An important factor in any communication is mutual understanding and this should never ever be ignored. Be simple, Be honest, do not be personal, maintain respect, wear a smile on your face and enjoy the conversation. Do remember the words in capital letters.
At times, moments of laughter and giggling starts unconditionally and boosts up a conversation. These talks are ever cheerful, joyous and pleasant. Do not miss a chance to have a happy conversation. It brights your day, enlightens your soul and make you feel better then ever. Small conversations are way affecting and inspiring. If you have someone you are not in touch, make a call and do a conversation that makes you happy and your friend the happiest. Trust me, you will feel awesome.

Happiness is having a happy conversation.

Is a tree important in your life ?


Have you ever thought about it ?

We all probably answer in NO because it is not being any important source to our daily lives.
The answer to this question is simply given by a little poor girl, who resides in a rural area. The girl named, bakhtawar met me on my visit to a village, with my family.

Poor girl was having lunch and I was sitting next to her. We were sitting outside a hut in a summery day.  As load shedding is now a daily part of Pakistanis, the electricity went off for two hours and I started talking to her about intensity of heat in these summers. The sun was so hot and sun rays was hitting earth directly. On asking about electricity and how do they sleep, in the absence of light?
Bakhtawar replied with a soft smile that we sleep so well in nights and there is no disturbance at all. I was little surprised but glad to hear from her as she felt little shy in front of me. Well, she further told me that there is a neam tree in her house which has scattered leaves, thick stem and it is huge in size. The neem tree is like air-condition to them. It gives breezy wind throughout the night and save them from hot weather in daylight.  All of the family members and even children of the neighbors sleep in the shadow of the tree. Little girl further said that neem tree is so much beneficial for them in every weather and tree is the best part of their home and we all just love it.

Her love for neem tree was so pure. By looking at her, I felt so much satisfaction and expressions of joy on her face. Then, I understand that how trees can also be so useful in fulfilling someone’s needs and of course, trees are important and are needed to be valued.

Let’s come to the beauty and uses of evergreen neem tree.

Neem tree is a symbol of health.

Neem tree is mostly famous in India but is also found in Pakistan and other places. There are countless benefits of using neem in our lives for multiple reasons. Many other names are also given to neem as “Divine tree”. It has great significance in providing beauty treatments and yes, it must be a favorite for women all over.

Hence, life is not about artificial luxuries, it is all about adaption of beautiful nature and simplicity in our lives.