Mother – She deserves to be treated as queen every day


It seems one day is just enough for all the days she pampered us with love, affection, and utter responsibility. Really?

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I am not a much huge fan of celebrating days, BUT I think it keeps us remembering the moments. Still, one day is never sufficient to say ‘Thankyou Mom you are truly special’.

What comes to your mind when you say ‘Mother’?

Everything! Or, Maybe someone whom I look forward to every morning or the lady whom I can’t share the worries so that she does not trap herself with tensions or Maybe such a woman who always pray ALLAH for the safety of her children from evil eyes or a woman whose eyes filled up with tears of happiness as she sees you with love.

You might have some other sort of explanation, But I know it would be heart touching in every way. I would love to have your definition 🙂

I believe if there is any relationship that is special, inspirational and jammed with emotions it would be a ‘Motherandchild’ relationship. Motherhood is definitely not beatable in any corner of the world. Let’s make Moms more special by treating them Queens every day.

Things you can present to your mother every day;

1)A beautiful flower (You can also give rose petals in a bowl of water)
2)A kiss to her forehead
3)A tight hug of love
4)Give time or take her to a walk
5)Help her in doing house chores or cooking.
6)Buy her a gift in a week or maybe a month.
7)A goodnight wish

She doesn’t need more! A mother only desires respect, love, care and time.

Islam, the religion of peace, has always stressed significance on the mother. Not just Islam, Christianity, Hinduism and several other religions signify the importance of pious woman and mothers.

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I wish I could give advice to those who scold their mothers for awkward reasons and they even don’t regret the words. Be good to your parents and treat them with kindness.

Importantly, I want to pay tribute to all those gorgeous mothers who have around 1000000 levels of tolerance against their kids! 😉

In Run For Advice – Why?


Do you find a friendly suggestion really helpful? Have you actually considered someone’s words or you garbage it?

This is one of the confused questions I often ask myself. Well, I think listening to other thoughts and opinions is never harmful, whether you contemplate or not.

Life kicks you out several times. Agree?

How do we act generally when we get trapped in certain situations? Where do we go mostly?

You just wish to end all the connections, whether it be your land line or your super smartphone. No interruptions; No exchange of words.

The point is, you are not the only one who is on the sinking boat. I, he, she and they are all together dreaming for a fantasy life, which never sees any unfortunate event, although it’s impossible! A drowning boat sets the vision that the person undergoes wretched, miserable phase.

Heartbreaking moments badly hit our happy, fateful lives and often get us in unbearable positions. It occurs, when you face a tremendous financial loss and you wonder how will I buy credit for my phone or even how would I refill my petrol tank, however you are contended that your loving relative, a kind friend or family will at least make you not suffer from food 😉 Our lives need MUCH MORE than just food.

It also happens when you broke off with a close relation. It can be your soul mate whom you had made promises of not leaving till the last breath and you will definitely take her/him to explore Paris, London, New York and Pakistan(Northern Areas have attractive views – Read The Inspiring Pakistan Through Brandon Stanton’s Camera Eye ) See, you just cut off a relationship which you never hoped for. And you are feeling free 🙂 But, that’s is not the case of every couple.

My point of concentration is, life can play with us anytime so there is none to be blamed. Maybe the unlucky time. As we caught ourselves with losses, break-ups, depression, diseases, mental disorders, family problems, insufficient resources, bad gatherings, cruel habits and much more. We need a good mentor, a person who understands you or even bothers to listen to your worries. What’s a big deal in listening to his/her words?

A teacher, friend, neighbor, relative, stranger, classmate, colleague, professor or even a gardener can give you good suggestions. Do not leave children behind! They also attempt to give us cute and sweet messages by their little acts, filled with innocence and charm.

Great advice can uplift one’s career, relation and attitude. Parents always make efforts to give advises to their children, few of them get succeed and many fails. I believe, an acceptable combination of inner emotions, advice, experience and the positive attitude can solve several unsettled questions.

Six Words Stories Challenge – 1


I cannot keep myself at a distance from this intriguing challenge.
The blog, A hopelessly wandering mind, has started this inspiring story competition and it truly captivated my attention. Here I am also participating in this short thoughtful contest.

Theme : Loss

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Broken fence willingly listens pained words.

May 22 – Dodge to Jealous monster


STORY A DAY (Writing prompts, May 22- Time For Something Different)

Saira whispered something fishy to Lilly. The packed mathematics class did not notice the wicked plan, the girls discussed. Students were paying full concentration to Professor’s detailed lecture on Algebra. The girls, Saira and lilly, on the other side, were pretending to be physically present with absent minds. Algebra seemed to be a threatening monster that eats up intelligent minds avariciously. Girls assume that their tranquil minds, filled with extremely unique ideas,get swallowed then digested by that mosquito faced monster and how come they imagine a life, gets sucked with algebra, attacking monster. Lilly roared with a screeching voice, No! I can’t let my beautiful mind be trapped and hijacked by unidentified warriors of mathematics. As the time of execution strikes clock, Saira, with the help of chair, quickly lied on the floor without hurting herself and Lilly yelled shockingly(over reacted), “Saira is fainted! she needs to take medicines”. Before the Algebra Professor exchanges a reply, Lilly interrupted, “I will take her home to get rest”.

Girls with impish talents,heroically escaped from jealous creepy monster.

May 20 – Fatima meets Mr.Rahim


STORY A DAY – STORY IN THE PRESENT TENSE

Fatima always dreams of spending a day alone outside her home. Her dream comes true on a bright,shiny day of summers, she left her house carrying her favorite brown leather handbag on the shoulders. Handbag has a chilled water bottle, a fresh lemon juice and some eatables. Riding on the bicycle, fatima notices that Mr Rahim is carrying a heavy sack of loaded vegetables toward the market for selling and earning his livelihood. She immediately parked the bicycle and asked Mr.rahim to take her bicycle and return when he is done with his work. The old man has refused earlier but on insisting by soft heartened fatima, he agrees and takes bicycle. She also gave him a lemon juice and eatables.

The girl started walking toward market, without any purpose, just to experience about the nature of people. She observes new people and deeply think how is everyone so different with each other. Some man give an annoying stare while few women comments on her as she is walking all alone. She keeps on asking abrupt questions to herself, “Why people are always in hurry”? Why they put efforts to judge others? Does no one care for a stranger?

Roaming for about two hours, she returns home with confused emotions about the depressing attitudes of the people, whom she met outside. She realizes that she has not seen a kind and humble person in the whole day and concludes with an idea that it’s far better to sit inside and do not dream about the imaginary loved world outside.

On her way to sleep, Fatima suspiciously notices that a man is trying to push the main entrance door of the house. She feels little worried but hopeful that she has seen this man today and he has a generous heart. As she opens the door, she is over-whelmed to see that a family of 8 people have come to thank her for letting helping hand to their father today when he was going toward market to sell vegetables.

“Why you let your old-aged father to work such hard”, asked fatima from the elder son of Mr.rahim. He replies that our father had a discussion with us last week that I want to see if there is still any kind and humble human being in this world who would help a strange old-aged man and give everything she/he has and if I find such person in two weeks, I will not suffer hard and relax.

Today You have made me wrong Fatima, said Mr. Rahim happily. Fatima smiles and replied back the same to Mr. Rahim, “You have made me wrong too”.

May 11 – Memories


Make A Story A Day

In a dark moon night of summers, all of the family children planned of a night stay at Nida’s home. Every naughty soul was booming with some terrific ideas to make the night stay too entertaining. Kids from age 8 to age 16 joined the plan. The idea was to pretend sleeping calmly until parents of nida set to asleep and the tricky idea worked perfectly.

As the parents went to sleep, the kid monsters opened up their freaking eyes and rolled up the minds to initiate the night plan. From the total number of twelve kids, only three actively opened up the eyes and executed the with plan. Others had luxuriate in dreams while sleepwalking or may be the kids were in foolishly funny thoughts better than the night plan. Moving on with three most playful minds, the kids went to top of the roof with lots of garbage stuff in hand. They quickly put a hard throw of a useless battery in the direction directly on the head of street guard with fullest force and hide smartly. Yes, they actually did that with excelling power of kid of age 10. Not just the street guard, that neighbor aunt and angry retarded uncle were also trapped and became brutal victims of mischievous kids. With playful songs and stamping dance moves, the night went hilarious funny.

Next morning, the culprits, were sleeping peacefully dreaming of being awarded for the act of bravery for the late night act. But in real, a roaring shout of mother woke them up, they went down stairs with innocent ,decent, “I did nothing at all” faces and faced a strict lecture with torture as a main subject. In real, the family said extremely sorry to all the neighbors for the wicked plan by the kids and felt guilty.

And You want to know, how those three devilish minds felt after the strict lesson ? They kept on teasing the other kids for being so non adventurous and boring. Later on, three impish minds flickered up themselves with courageous awards for being gusty and daredevil LOL

Revealing three wicked minds who drew the plan and achieved it audaciously, were my sister(nida), my cousin brother and I.

If there would be no internet?


I was just sitting on a lounge sofa with a cup of tea in hand, thinking how my life would be without internet?
To start with, I really can’t think about it! I mean SERIOUSLY, NO INTERNET!

The life would definitely be unpredictable and of course boring. Still at the time I was thinking, my cell phone was in my hand and laptop was kept on the table on the other side of sofa. That means our lives are 24-hour connected via internet with people living in different countries around the world. Well, there are people who have grown up without dependence on internet and live a happy, satisfying life without disturbance of face book notifications, red light alarming low battery and overloaded inbox of emails. As I talk about the interruptions from facebook,I have to remind you candy crush notifications. LOL!

Importantly, I would miss GOOGLE for sure, as it is an instant help to all of us and an important source of information just at a distance of one click. There would be no facebook, twitter, instagram notifications which pop up at my phone screen. Oh I will be without my android too. No no NO! And Iphone users, without their Iphone! The time would be without handy technologies too.

There would be no blog with my name, no followers to interact and no forum for sharing my talks with my readers. My thoughts would have been buried somewhere, my stories be faded away and my approach to meet new friends from all over the world would have been flown away. There would be no excitement for uploading a post, and to see how many likes you get. How can I forget to write about facebook and watsapp profile pictures? Profile pictures and selfie craziness will be nowhere. There would be no SNAPCHAT stories of our favorites, we would have been only dreaming to gather any latest news from television or newspapers about lifestyles of celebs. The television will expand its inventive significance and books will be regaining their readers in libraries.

Turning to the other side, we will be having more face to face interactions; there will be no distractions in family dinners/lunch. My mom won’t be complaining about excessive use of smart phone. The absence of internet will ultimately urge to value the presence of books, magazine and other printed versions. Children will be spending more time on physical activities and gaming other than social media, ipad and other handy technologies. Friends will prefer gathering rather than a chat on watsapp group. We will arrange gatherings to look at photo albums, to share moments and enjoy conversations instead of getting likes, comments on facebook and other social sites.

It was just a plain imagination of my mind, although internet is now a basic connectivity of our daily lives.

Childhood Memories – April’s Fool Day


Taking YOU to my childhood, the time when children are energized, capable and loaded with creativity.
On the same day, 1st of April, I accompanied with my sister and friends, wandered in our neighbors and paste the poster, shown in the picture below.
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Yes, we were hilarious kids! The time was fun. What we do was we waited for April fool day, make weird plans, spot the targeted family and decide the timings. On the day, we gathered in groups with our childish yet idiotic ideas that were overflowed in our little minds. We did not care about the hot sun that tanned our skin; we were highly focused on the execution of our plan. Our house was in a compressed narrow street which had all houses nearby with no distance between them. In the mid-afternoon, my friend took two posters with words “Sorry! For this April Fool, We are your nearest neighbors” written with a red marker and two empty boxes filled with garbage but wrapped in a cute gift paper. We kept the box on the front door and attached the poster with the box, rang bell and ran as fast as we could. We hide in our houses and secretly watched the scene behind the doors to see who opened the neighbor’s door and how he/she reacted. Then we celebrated a loud screaming noise of laughter in my house. AHH the time was ludicrous and it is inestimable. That time has no comparison.

Remember the good fun days which you enjoyed with your beloved one’s more often as time never come back but we can cherish the sweet, fantastic memories anytime.

And now, I don’t celebrate April’s Fool Day at all.