I actually don’t know the couple. Yes! I am sorry, I captured it secretly. I couldn’t let this moment escape as the wall wasn’t crowded with other people and gave success to my shot.
I actually don’t know the couple. Yes! I am sorry, I captured it secretly. I couldn’t let this moment escape as the wall wasn’t crowded with other people and gave success to my shot.
A girl’s life is different. You may think, Why and How ?
Whether she is a student, a doctor or a professor, perspectives of her life are varied. As being a girl, I can so relate. I know men and boys also experience a challenging life. Let’s talk about girls this time.
When a toddler(baby girl) is born, history and diversified cultures tell us that people see through broad eyes the hurdles, she would be bringing in the future. Though, a born baby doesn’t ask much! People are more concerned about the future; however, I agree they keep everything planned. This is not the way to burden yourself with irrelevant circumstances. But, thankful to the modern era, where girl is treated almost equal as boys and those societies where women are greatly motivated. The great religion,Islam also considers birth of girl as a blissful blessing.
As she strenuously jumps in the process of learning and seeking education, I highly encourage the endeavoring efforts of parents and society who put stress on the importance of girl’s education. But, we also find narrow-minds and intolerant existence in our society. She have to strive and struggle till she successfully completes her academics. She also have to manage with home chores, if the family is not too modern. Here, modern is viewpoint of liberal minds.
After facing great challenges in the schools, neighborhoods and institutes, she enters in the professional fields, basically to earn. I hereby agree, females are preferably hired in certain organizations. Many researches have concluded where the ratio of educated women surpassed ratio of men in getting good jobs. But, Have you ever think of the tortures and woes a women suffers when she unfortunately handed over to a barbaric male dominating organization. Looking at a girl as she is a cheese cake and desperate desires to have it, reflects to such inhuman behaviors. Well, these are all boorish acts of people, prevailing in our society.
I eagerly wanted to drive attention toward so-called easy life of a girl. Though, it is not!
Coming to the happy word, MARRIAGE. It brings moments of joys and happiness to the entire family. Woman(who was once a girl) has to undergo with torment as looks of anguish crossed her face several times and it get noticed by all of us. She strongly faces the fading parts of her shimmery wedding and combat to remain reticent and muted. Lucky are those who have nice partners. Here, nice describes a perfect man. Contrary to the fact that no one is perfect!
With the practical teachings of life, She becomes a mentor who can instill knowledge on the subjects of compromise, sacrifice and steps to endure tolerance. Is she still an ordinary human ? Definitely, No from my side!
This post is just an introduction summary, omitting atrocious melancholy.
I would be profoundly appreciated to have your viewpoint on this post. I really mean it.
The popular name of Brandon Stanton has attractively earned huge respect from Pakistan and their loving people. While People of Pakistan are still warming Brandon with marvelous comments for capturing unique stories of Pakistanis on Humans Of New York (HONY) Facebook page, Just like others I have also seen few disturbing, quite rude comments about my country.
But I prefer to ignore such discomforting reactions as there were impressive and huge warming sweet comments on the page, in favor of Pakistan, which wonderfully maintained the highlights of the trip to Pakistan.
Striving efforts of Brandon to perceive the reality of Pakistan through his camera eye is incredible. His trip to Hunza Valley is too influential. How ?
If you are familiar with HONY, you must know this is a photography blog which is well updated by perfect camera shots of people, belonging to different countries with motivational stories. Hunza Valley of Pakistan is one of my favorite destination(prior to my desiring world tour). The pleasing sight of valleys, eye-catchy meadows and mountains is enough to refresh you for a long time. Brandon clicked multiple shots through his camera lens that bring fascinating stories of simple-living people. You will definitely plan a trip to Pakistan, after seeing those awesome images.
A fine trip will also let you amazed by beauty among people of Pakistan and it’s land. The warm nature of residents to greet with every fellow being or a foreigner is bellyful and bounteous to overlook the negative image, portrayed by several anti-Pakistan groups. I hope, many of my followers would agree!
Though Pakistan and it’s people are greatly thankful to Brandon Stanton for driving many people attention toward Pakistan awesome stories and obviously, the heavenly views. To get in your knowledge, Humans Of Pakistan Facebook page also bring encouraging stories to viewers from all over Pakistan.
Have you enjoyed pleasant feel of a beach? I am sure, you must have visited a seaside or even a refreshing lake for a wonderful environment. Here, I let you see the seaside through my words, relax, I have also clicked a picture for you people.
The calmness and silence of exotic waves, belonging to Arabian sea assures a positive strength as you build up an eye contact with it. It can be terrible and shocking too, if the waves are at rush. Though, alarming situations at the seaside are also dreadful.
There is nothing more peaceful than sitting at the big wall or even huge rocks. Karachi seaside or the beaches are delightful to look at. As I draw attention of my eyes toward splashing waves, beautiful view is fully energetic to refresh and inspire you. The inner soul gets exhilarated as the view make you feel rejuvenating and more fresh. When I jumped out of my car and allowed myself to rest on rocky wall, my hectic life enters in a cooling zone that brings joy and happiness. Staying at the cooling beach is always a delightful experience. Make a plan to your nearest seaside though Pakistan has got beautiful edge of Arabian sea to seek pleasing environment.
Due to hustle and bustle of daily routine lifestyle, Sara planned to join at lunch with Ali, her colleague at office. Both, the individuals were craving for a delicious taste of Chinese food and rest their feet at the newly opened restaurant. The smoke, from the platter, was filled with savory aroma and glasses of juice were placed on each corner of the exquisite table. The environment was pleasant and charming.
Sara’s phone started ringing, She picked up a call and excused Ali for a minute. In the meantime, Ali took out a paper and a Parker pen. With his untidy writing, he managed to write something in hurry, folded the paper like a napkin and place it under Sara’s mats.
Sara, with overjoyed expression, came back and informed Ali, She has a surprise to tell him. Ali was in state of confusion thinking, What does Sara has to say and a surprise!
In the meantime, Sara took that paper(folded as a napkin) and with a surprising look, started reading it politely, which actually brings a ecstatic smile on her face. The letter said, “I have no understanding, What I have to say But I need to confess, when you say Yes to any statement, I just assume it to be the answer of my question!”
Sara, with mixed emotions, asked Ali, “And what is your question?”
Ali replied with a hand written note, which said, “Do you want me to be with you every time, every day and every morning?”. The boy again mumbled a statement saying, “I always assumed a YES from her”.
Sara did not want to drop this cute moment, forgetting about the surprise of her admission in Fashion designing University, She took a paper and wrote the word, YES, which triggers a delightful beginning of a new story.
We haven’t met for almost ONE YEAR!
Around 7 years back, I saw her first sitting next to my chair in chemistry class at coaching centre. She was amazingly attractive and polite but little reserve, not liking to talk unimportant. I was also being quieter and disciplined girl, she had ever seen. Being sophisticated for more than a month, we took out faked masks and became REAL FRIENDS.
From all of sudden hourly calls to minute text, we were bound in the countless attachment. I adore her and she adores me. We have been always like those good friends who no matter what happen shares the daily talks, every hour. On the exciting birthdays, we always come up with some mind boggling ideas for the party celebration. Those cute handmade cards, pictures and customized things are always so dear to me. She is a friend, with whom i can cry and laugh simultaneously. No No, don’t think I am mad LOL. This is another phase of a strong relation, where you feel comfortable with a friend, family or companion. Lucky are those who are blessed with generous relations.
Number of Misunderstandings tried to infiltrate gap between our friendship but with the inner love for each other, it always failed. I understand her and she understands me. Like all best friends, we enjoyed our life hilariously. I still remember the abrupt calls, she did in the sleeping hours to just let me know how she felt about her boyfriend, later become husband. Gorgeous! What a splendidly beautiful love story they shared. Listening to her funny stories became my favorite time through out the day.The unforgettable memories we cherish today is priceless and valued. With time, she got a job in airlines and now she lives in the clouds. I mean, she is an airhostess 🙂 For the busy schedules and her married life commitments, she is no more the same time giving girl, I celebrated my life with. I understand her commitments and I trust her for being with me always and forever. I am so confident that she keeps the same thoughts. With my passion of traveling all over the world, I keep my vision with my bestie and explore the world with her eyes and camera 😉
I do complain her and she complains me. But the care and share emotions we maintained in our friendship is way above than complaining. Now, we don’t talk hourly nor weekly but we still share the thoughts and listen to each other. She is still the one, whom I can message and disturb. She is still the one whom I can show my shopping. She is the still that girl whom I can tell those unspoken words. She is still that KINZA whom I saw her back 7 years ago.
I miss her every day and She misses me too.
An exotic sight of a peaceful place In the northern areas of Pakistan is named as Chillam village. The attractive grassy mountain is beautifying the portrait of the simple, calming village. Plain mud houses in the meadows are completing the essence of the picture though the place looks like a clean, purified destination that shines with sun rays in the morning. Deprived of all the basic facilities of today’s modern life, a person living in such a pleasing, wonderful place is gifted with the blessing of fresh air and miraculous view. The breathtaking scenery gives a pleasant feel to one’s eye, portraying a glimpse of a paradise on earth.
Chillam village is located in the fascinating northern areas of Pakistan. It can be reached after famous DEOSAI plains.
(This post is in response to Casual Fri: Re-post)
Women in Pakistan are having the interesting season of time, because it is about LAWN. As the hint of summer season arrives in the region, the investment in the sector of clothing reaches high.
LAWN is a soft fabric made especially for women of every age and class. The lawn fever is an attraction to all the girls and women living in Pakistan or outside of it. There are more than 150 brands of lawn introduced in Pakistan and it is still flourishing on the demands of the buyers. The lawn craze is creating hype among buyers and every woman gets so excited to buy the new prints as it launches in the market. The designer lawn comes up with beautiful designs that one cannot resist to drop 3 local lawn suits to go for that one designer wear. No doubt the impressive designs are so catchy to a woman eye.
As Karachi hardly enjoy winters, so lawn fabric is enjoyable throughout the whole year. The price range depends upon the quality you go for. The big giant, lawn, is taking over other fabrics and maintains a class in the market. Not only in Pakistan, but lawn is in greater demand outside the Pakistan. The designer brands are opening their outlets in other countries to expand the business.
The greater the brand is, the higher the price will be.
Women go especially for lawn shopping and the husbands or fathers keep worrying about paying the bills. LOL ! I also went for some summer clothes with my sisters and we bought around twelve suits. It was just our first market round, we need to go more. I am loving all the prints, designing, the color contrast and the fabric.
From Deepak Parwani to Nadia Hussain, every designer jumps into the production of lawn as the business expands quickly and increases in demands if the designs are outstanding. Lawn comes in simple prints, embroidered collection, semi-stitched collection and formal prêt collection.
Another business which is expanding rapidly is replica. It somehow affects the original lawns to a bit but a customer gets exactly the same design in cheaper rates. Replicas are in favor of customers but those who prefer wearing the original material of high quality never run for copy fabrics and buy original.
To me Lawn is an easy to carry fabric with delicate quality and impressive attractive designs. The extravagant collection that comes in trendy lawn is too gorgeous and stunning.
HAPPY LAWN SHOPPING!
Are you really happy or you pretending to be happy?
When anyone asks you, do you feel excellent about your life? Most of the time the question remain unanswered and we move on. Although living a happier life is not that complicated, in fact it is a simple and easy attempt toward positivity.
Can’t we start living a happier life with some easy-to-do steps?
yes; a smiling face is a happier face. When you smile, your soul shines and it naturally bring glow to your face. Smile helps you overcome the feeling of stress and discomfort. For example, when you see a smiling child or a person who wear smile, you overcome stress and give smile in return. Here, you feel the moment of joy. Just give it a try and you will experience the positivity in air, leads to happiness.
2) BE BEAUTIFUL
Becoming beautiful is the expression to be real YOU and to look graceful. A gorgeous body needs a shinning soul to make it a perfect blend of beautifulness. Here, another question click my mind and it says, “What makes our soul to be more beautiful?” It is the thoughts we carry in our minds and we need to harness those thoughts. Make your soul be pure, real and positive.
Looking elegant is your personal right and you should never allow this right to be challenged. Carry things that look amazing on your body, take an effective skin care and stay healthy.
3) LOVE YOURSELF
we see people around us who always show discouragement to themselves. They lose hopes easily; they get affected at once, they take everything for granted and STOP moving forward. I believe loving yourself is an inner confidence which urges you to improve, look better and aim high. Be your favorite. Make efforts to love the goodness of your personality. Have a belief in your personality that I can and I will.
Happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing can make you happy until you choose to be happy”-Ralph Martson.
4) WEAR DIFFERENT COLORS
Everyone has own choice of wearing dress and the color that suits. Wearing few colors repeatedly make you a static person so wear some brightening shades like yellow, orange etc. White is a must-have in a wardrobe. Save money and change your wardrobe after few months, seeing your budget and pocket.
5) HAVE A CONVERSATION
At times, we feel displeasure in our surroundings and we need a break. Yes, you are on point. Pick up your phone and make a call to your friend. Mostly they are friends who listen and comfort you, depending on the bonding you share with the other person. The conversation can distract you from daily routines and you start talking about other stuff at least for few minutes. If you are a girl or women, it never sticks to minutes; it would be definitely a call of more than an hour. Other than calling, start texting or messaging but take yourself out from facebook and twitter.
6) TIME TO EXERCISE
A body needs movement to get fit and active. Staying in motion and doing an activity like dance or indoor games is an exciting way keep your body in shape and motivate to exercise daily. Do not adopt any exercise as a must-to-do-job but enjoy the activity for 15 minutes daily and let your body enjoy dancing.
“When a physical activity has fun aspects you’re more likely to make it a habit because it doesn’t feel exercise”, says Ottawa exercise specialist Jennifer Greger.
7) MAKE OTHERS HAPPY
We can’t feel the real happiness unless we spread the moments of joy and delight. It’s all about being kind, being helpful and being entertaining towards others. For example speak gentle words with old couple, pass a smile to a stranger, ask about your neighbor health, listen stories of other lives, play with a child, say a word of gratitude, motivate someone, hug you mom, proudly introduce your father to your friends, etc. There are many little things around us, that can bring a positive gesture and YOU be the reason of enchantment for others.
8) WEEKEND IS FOR OUTING
After working for 6 days a week, all of us need some quality time for our family and friends. Here it is, the happy weekend. Decide the places to visit and enjoy. For shopping freaks, time to go out! Watch a movie with your favorites. Give your choice a thought and entertain yourself.
9) ENJOY THE MOMENTS AND LAUGH
Enjoying moments is to create a comfortable environment where you crack funny stories, show art of giggling, sing a song with your own created lyrics, celebrate a win over your joke and live in the instant time of entertainment. This time is inestimable, it never comes back.
If we wear a mask of happiness, it is injustice to your inner soul. Live a simple but happier life.