Girl – not an ordinary human


A girl’s life is different. You may think, Why and How ?

Positive woman who seeks inspiration

Positive woman who seeks inspiration

Whether she is a student, a doctor or a professor, perspectives of her life are varied. As being a girl, I can so relate. I know men and boys also experience a challenging life. Let’s talk about girls this time.

When a toddler(baby girl) is born, history and diversified cultures tell us that people see through broad eyes the hurdles, she would be bringing in the future. Though, a born baby doesn’t ask much! People are more concerned about the future; however, I agree they keep everything planned. This is not the way to burden yourself with irrelevant circumstances. But, thankful to the modern era, where girl is treated almost equal as boys and those societies where women are greatly motivated. The great religion,Islam also considers birth of girl as a blissful blessing.

As she strenuously jumps in the process of learning and seeking education, I highly encourage the endeavoring efforts of parents and society who put stress on the importance of girl’s education. But, we also find narrow-minds and intolerant existence in our society. She have to strive and struggle till she successfully completes her academics. She also have to manage with home chores, if the family is not too modern. Here, modern is viewpoint of liberal minds.

After facing great challenges in the schools, neighborhoods and institutes, she enters in the professional fields, basically to earn. I hereby agree, females are preferably hired in certain organizations. Many researches have concluded where the ratio of educated women surpassed ratio of men in getting good jobs. But, Have you ever think of the tortures and woes a women suffers when she unfortunately handed over to a barbaric male dominating organization. Looking at a girl as she is a cheese cake and desperate desires to have it, reflects to such inhuman behaviors. Well, these are all boorish acts of people, prevailing in our society.

I eagerly wanted to drive attention toward so-called easy life of a girl. Though, it is not!

Coming to the happy word, MARRIAGE. It brings moments of joys and happiness to the entire family. Woman(who was once a girl) has to undergo with torment as looks of anguish crossed her face several times and it get noticed by all of us. She strongly faces the fading parts of her shimmery wedding and combat to remain reticent and muted. Lucky are those who have nice partners. Here, nice describes a perfect man. Contrary to the fact that no one is perfect!

With the practical teachings of life, She becomes a mentor who can instill knowledge on the subjects of compromise, sacrifice and steps to endure tolerance. Is she still an ordinary human ? Definitely, No from my side!

This post is just an introduction summary, omitting atrocious melancholy.

I would be profoundly appreciated to have your viewpoint on this post. I really mean it.

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4 thoughts on “Girl – not an ordinary human

  1. I’m 23, living in Lahore, just about to finish my Masters degree, and striving to get my dream job, but now just as I’m step into my “independent” phase my family (not my parents, my relatives) tease me on how I should get married immediately now. Like if I stay single any longer I’ll be considered an abomination! They judge my parents. My friends who are getting married give me those smirking looks (“Oh look I beat you to it! Hah!”). I don’t know why our society considers marriage to be the ultimatum of a girls life. My parents understand my wishes and I’m eternally thankful for that, they’re supportive of my dreams; so if my parents don’t have a problem with my independence why does the society then? It sickens me.

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    • Hey Abeeha, I can so relate the situation every girl faces. Exactly, the society and it’s sharpened eyes do not let an independent bird to flee and achieve the dreams. Society has some narrow-minded approaches who have considered marriage to be the sole purpose of a girl’s life. And, to their astonishment, it in major cases provide pains and agony. If men do not want their life to be in the cage very soon, then Why girls? These crucial norms have badly ended many dreams.

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